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Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts

Sunday 14 December 2014

Fear is a speck

Hassan -the fourth son of late Dadapeer Makandar. He is the last child of 7 children of Dadapeer. Hassan is the rich and successful person who has great respect in the society.

It was the time when Hassan was the child, his father was having a two wheeler garage at KJ Halli Bangalore. Dadapeer’s business was running successful enough to serve his wife and children. Dadapeer's house was at Padarayanapura near KR market; which, he purchased by taking loan from Kamal Seth and selling his ambassador car.

After they started residing in their new house, his business improved, and the couples got 3 boy children after 4 girls.  When, Hassan; his last son turned to the age of 3, Dadapeer cleared all his loan and purchased another house at KJ-Halli, and he opened a branch of his garage at Kengeri.

After opening new garage, it was difficult for him to maintain both of them. Time has become pure gold for him, and coming back to home was a rare advent.  Sleep and food were irregularly monitored, His health started deteriorating, observing his health getting deteriorated, his wife advised him to hire people to maintain garage.

Finally, he decided to hire 4 mechanics  to maintain his two garages. This made his life easier; But, unfortunates and accidents are unbidden. His garage at Kengeri set to fire due to a cylinder blast, which took the lives of his two mechanics. At KJ-Halli his garage was demolished by the Corporation for road widening and given him a shop away from main road. This all happened in one month.

After this incident, the pressure mounted on Dadapeer. Again, time has become pure gold for him, coming home has become a rare advent again. Sleep and food were irregularly monitored. Along with these,financial wane give him extreme stress.

Dadapeer lost his peace and he started drinking alcohol every day, he beat his children and shouting at his wife was common to him.

One day his wife shouted at him, and forced him to stop the garage, and start a new business. She told him, it's better quit; than risking the life with machines all the time . They both shouted, Dadapeer beaten his daughters, then drank heavily. He took his pet son Hassan outside and preached “Fear is death. Fear  will not allow anybody to move forward, Life is full of risks, without risk life will not move forward”.

While coming back home, they fell by bike, Dadapeer lost his life and Hassan's hand got fractured. The shock of his father’s death turned a havoc to him, he decided never to touch automobiles and machines.

Since then, Hassan never touched any automobile, he did not even learn bicycle. But when he finished his highschool, he felt ashamed when his friends laughed at him for not knowing bike riding. He was also embarrassed by the craze they have shown on bike, he  felt bad when they went for a road trip on bike.

But at last his father’s words came to his mind, he recalled them. He has thrown away his fear, and decided to learn bike; but, there was risk in it; as he was not aware even to ride a bicycle.

Initially, he took his friend's moped-bike instead of bicycle, he has fallen, hurt himself, broken his hand for the second time in his life, but he did not leave the task. The fear in him was absolutely gone and he learned bike.

He gained knowledge on construction of bikes, and four wheelers. He joined a garage as assistant, he learned four wheeler and then started modifying the bikes. Slowly he became expert in modifying bikes.

After few years of experience, Hassan opened his own Garage; where, he started modifying normal bikes into Race bikes. Along with modification; he started practicing race biking.   He has failed and his face got scrapped after falling, but he continued to move without fear.

Finally, he won a national level race and started taking part in international races, he got money, pride and girl  to marry. He started training the guys, opened a driving school, and today he is an official mechanic to perform service to Yamaha racer bikes and cars.







Saturday 27 April 2013

DONT PANIC






If a person is addicted to alcohol, we call them alcoholic, If a person is psychologically weak, we call them psychic; but, the word panic is nothing but addiction to pain .

Pain-ic is nothing but panic. In and around our lives, we come across lots of situations; where, every one of us comes across panic situations. Getting panic is the ultimate path of a catastrophe. Always ice cool nature will lead life happily.

No man is devoid of pain, grief and whine . Everyone of us has undergone a situation of pathetic or come across medical emergency. Under such situation becoming panic is common, Panic minds not just ruin them-,self but his fellows too. If the patient infers panic, he won’t recover from disease easily. If his mates get panic, the situation will be worse; since,they hits on patients hope by showing panic.

Similar to medical exigency, we come across lots of natural disasters such as earthquakes, tsunami, fire accidents; where, the situations are difficult to handle; because, man is speck in front of nature to withstand. Getting panic is such regards kill lives that could otherwise have been saved.


When I think of the word “PANIC’ I think of  certain situation I experienced and most of us do.

There will be situations and NEWS, heard by everyone of us about people losing lives after drowning in the water  accidentally slipping into the water or else falling into deep without knowing swim completely. 

Under such situations, panic minds going to die beyond doubt; and, they take a few with them as well. Even while drowning, one will not die immediately; but, turning panic will take them to the end. Under worse condition they pull someone and take their lives with them. Even best swimmers find difficult to rescue them. In some other situations good swimmers turn panic and plunge themselves.


Born in a goldsmith family and being in a pure science field, I came across lots of acid accidents. One day I heard one bad event in one of my known families; where three year child burned his legs, pulling up the HNO3 bottle which was often used in devising jewelry. 

An overwhelming feeling of fear and anxiety and the child’s mother to rub the child’s legs with a cloth; which resulted in a spread of the acid half way of the body up  to the thigh and in some parts of the hand and abdomen as well. 

The child is gifted with scars of acid burn for the rest of the life, as a result of getting panic. Taking cool,  if she would have poured lots of water or thud the child into water tub and then applied baking soda available at home, acid would have neutralized to greater extent if not completely.

While studying M.Sc, one of my classmates drank acid while mouth pipetting in a tautness of lab. And her life was in danger, we all were in panic and stood static until one cool guy poured water into her mouth and rescued her life by avoiding the burning of her tungsten; though her pink lips burned. 

Often we hear about accidents, road mishaps which are the result of being anxious or clueless due to affright situation. We all heard about drivers jumping from their seat, damaging him; but, causing disaster. People keep on pressing accelerator when they are being panicke or scared.


Even in the corporate world, anxious minds quarrel with higher officials, which result in their loss of appraisal or resignation. The loss is not to higher authority as they may feel happy for saving some bucks to the company which helps their appraisal .

At the edge of victory doesn’t panic, it helps your opponent to take a chance.  Being cool make its way ease more.  Probably this is why Dhoni is praised for.

For every one of us catastrophic emergencies are a default.

BEING PANIC JUST INCREASE THE PAIN
NOTHING WILL BE LEFT OTHER THAN VAIN
BEING COOL CAN ROOT OUT THE BANE
EVEN WE TOO CAN PLEASURE PEOPLE LIKE A RAIN


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