Story of Brave lady who made my day

I was at my first Indiblogger meet -“Milaap Bangalore IndiBlogger Meet” which took place at “Microsoft Research India Labs Pvt. Ltd” near Bangalore club. 

I was obviously happy in meeting fellow bloggers who have been writing for years, with a hope of happiness in this kind of social meets, expecting a lot of fun, I was at #HopeProject. As expected event started well with beautiful girl “Aditi” initiated the event that could challenge the scribblers like me, it was to describe the meaning of hope in one word. 

Each of us in the meet wrote our great thinking in a word which showed the zeal of the event. “Education” “Unity” “Congnizance” “Truth” “smile” “ Health” “ Security” “Renaissance” etc. These were the word of hope that came out on paper and photographs.

 The word of  Hope

Never says Nope

The event went even further when each of the bloggers introduced themselves and their blogs. Each of them Explained the word “ Hope” for them. When my turn came I was nervous, and I stuttered to utter words, heartbeat increased, fear in mind increased my body temperature, sweat flow all through my body, Hush! I finished my introduction.

After this,the real event initiated, the event for which we were all at Microsoft Research Labs. Milaap  #HopeProject .

The Hope Project is a campaign that aims to inspire urban masses towards, empowering rural women entrepreneurs through small contributions. What makes this project special is that the women in this case are ex-Devadasis and the possibility of self-reliance is a ray of fierce hope for them. Within the Devadasi system, young girls are “married” to the temple goddess. This merciless practice, though illegal, still exists in small towns of India.

The event was to raise funds for the welfare of the women who came out of “Devadasi” system; and, this is where I got my chance to talk, the stories they put on slides impressed me, after which when I got up to talk, the fear in me disappeared and I boldly put up my points to reach the root of cause to eradicate the evil. After all this there was one more event of puzzle and high tea.

Once the tea session was over “Milaap” team member introduced “Sitavva’ a lady who braved the society to come out of Devadasi system. Being a former devadasi, she fought really hard and jumbled hundreds of other Devadasis, rescued them from the black system and formed a union called as “MASS”. With the help of “Ministry of women and Child welfare”  they reached the root of the cause and the weed was in threat,  they legally took the issue and penalized the culprits who force the girls into the system despite of ban, and result was the eradication of Devadasi system in the entire Belgaum district of Karnataka. Sitavva says this proudly and her desire are still high, to rescue the women in the entire state and country. She emerged a leader, a brave musketeer who penalized the evils in the society.

In her speech she also told some of the lesson known behind the system. She told only  the girls of lower cast are made “Devadasi’s”. “Poverty”, “Lack of Rain”, “Lonebaby girl for the parents” “Girl born after many boy babies” and so many of them are the resons behind the evil. It was un-fortunate to know the silly reasons, which were the seeds of poison  and which has grown as a tree of the evil system in the society.

After her speech I went to “Sitavva” and had a little conversation with her in north Karnatakan dialect, where she expressed some more strange things. She told "Government stopped helping them, corruption filled in the women and child welfare department, neither ministers nor official’s respond to their requests, society see them lower despite of coming into the main stream of life, their children won’t get good jobs, their daughters won’t get boys to marry". Talking to me her eyes grown wet, and I was stunned silent. The black is not only the system, but the society itself; which still sees these brave ladies as culprits. The problem is in politics and corruption, the challenge is to eradicate the superstition in the people that is inherited in our blood.

Whatever; the work of Sitavva and the work Milaap  and everyone has to say “Hats off” to their effort. And everyone should give the help in all means for the cause they are working for and here is the no of Sitavva-94489952899.  

Don't forget to check website of MILAAP Organisation.

or 

Call Sitavva-94489952899 and be a part of tangible change.

Anti human edicts

“Kashmir’s all girl band calls it quits”

Bangalore mirror reports only a day after the Grand Mufti issued a Fatwa; terming, singing is against Islam and he asked them to abandon it.

Following all these circumstances, a question will arose for sure,. India; is it a secular, democratic country? Is the freedom we got, is just for namesake. Is India the safe lay, especially for women.

Right from the period of  Before Christ to till date android era, every creed, every human believe  singing is an asset of praying almighty. Which means Mufti's decree is against praying; because, according to him singing(praying) is anti-Islamic. If truly singing is an anti Islamic, it is against their creed, Why  Fatwa  to girls only? These are all the forgettable incidents conking around us.

Just a few days ago another revered religious hero, Baba Asaram Bapu put before a non-sense  by stating about the rape victim . He told “ If she would plead them; exclaiming them as brothers after chanting Saraswati Mantra , they would have not bumped on  the girl”

Ah! Is it a statement deserved for a mendicant.

If really the slayers were the humans, they would have not popped her like a carnivore, they would have not assaulted the innocent girl for no reason.

The harassment continues in every step, catastrophe to the humanity is undergoing like sunrise and sunsets.

Even Sania Mirza is being issued a fatwa few years ago for wearing mini skirts while playing.

Mr. Mufti, if you are true to your customs, why did you look attentively at the skirt,rather than praising her efforts of making the nation proud.

Thinking about all these commotions, I got two people to remember. 1st person  was, one of my M.Sc classmate who astoundingly expressed her surprise when she saw a seeing a laptop, for  it was the first time to her in life.

By listening to which, we all got astonished and were keen to hear the reason,which was again a catalyst of surprise. She narrated “Hers was an orthodox family; which did not allow any entertainment to women omitting sex with her husband. She even expressed that she was restricted to watch TV in her home except Q TV.

In two years no one ever saw her full face; because, she always used to cover her hairs and face with hijab. It was her forceful belief ; that, showing hairs and face to men other than husband is a blasphemy in Islam.

No one dares to even talk to her except few girls .  Even no one dared to touch her, when she drank acid accidentally while mouth pipetting. Thank god she was rescued somehow.Whether talking to a guy make them die?

I used to  feel stunned to see them wearing Burqa’s even at the temperature of 40+ at Gulburga;while,we were in a feel to shed off even our inner-wares to bear the heat. The great thing is about the Burqa's  was it's black  color.

In another horrible anti human experience,In another horrible anti human experience, I remember one of my schoolmates; whose mother was never allowed to come out of the residence after she conjoined. According to him, her mother kept her feet outside hardly four times because she was mother to four children.

 I  thought death sentence was better  than following this type of creeds. Even his sister dropped her school after 7th for she crossed her puberty.

Whatever may be the thoughts of religion, but anti-human credos are not bearable and it’s time to affirm words or action of protest. Stand still and support the parched.